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See this, Dele?

2
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That's me and Max
on our honeymoon.

3
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Aw, you used to be
very beautiful, Granny Dottie.

4
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What are you trying to say?

5
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That you have always
been very beautiful.

6
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Good save.

7
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No, it wasn't.

8
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I didn't know
you played football.

9
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Started varsity
as a sophomore.

10
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I almost sacked a guy
who almost went on

11
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to play semi-pro
Canadian football.

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Cool.

13
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Where is this?

14
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Ah, that's our
old lake house. Aw.

15
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Spent every summer there.

16
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Why are you so red?

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You look like
a hot dog.

18
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'Cause Granny Dottie sent us
outside without any sunscreen.

19
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Hey, it was the '70s.

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There was plenty of ozone
to go around.

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That's where my dad
taught me how to fish.

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I got my
first kiss there.

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Was it with the fish?

24
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It was Sarah Palmer.
We both had braces.

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Kiss didn't end till my dad
pried us apart

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with a
Swiss Army knife.

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Is that Christina and Douglas?

28
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No, actually, that's Christina
and that's Douglas.

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Oh.

30
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You have any
old photo albums?

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Of course.
Well, you should bust them out.

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No, thank you.

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Come on, there's nothing
to be embarrassed about.

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Look, here's my naked phase
when I was three.

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Aw, you had such a cute
little heinie.

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(laughs) Still does.

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I do not want

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to look back
at any of my phases.

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I'm sure Dele
would love to see

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some pictures
from your childhood.

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I'm sure he would also love
to go to the school dance,

42
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but neither one of those things
are going to happen.

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Come on, don't you want to hear
your mom's stories?

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Not if she doesn't
want to share them.

45
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And I do not.

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But you have wondered.
Of course.

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Well, you see that?

48
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The kid wants to know about you. Enough.

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Dele, go to your room.
Yes, Mum.

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My fault. Sorry, bud.

51
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I'll see you at dinner.

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("Ifanla" by Sola Akingbola
playing)

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All right,
if there is nothing else,

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meeting adjourned.

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Oh, before I forget,
our Walmart rep

56
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gave me two front row tickets
to Celtics-Pistons on Friday.

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How exciting.

58
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Douglas, you've been
on that account.

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I thought maybe
you'd like to come.

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How exciting
for Douglas.

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Friday? I can't.
I have a date.

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Well, you know what? You've been
putting in the hours.

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Take your bus driver lady
to a ball game

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and, here, have a couple
$20 beers on me.

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Mm-mm. Mm-mm. Mm-mm.

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Mm-mm. Mm-mm.
What "mm-mm"? What?
What's wrong?

67
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Olivia and I broke up.

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She took that bus
and ran right over his heart.

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She hurt my baby.

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Call me
old-fashioned,

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but I hope she dies
in a fire.

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Can we just
talk about work?

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Well, that's, uh, too bad.

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Boy, you get busy
for a few weeks,

75
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you-you miss all the news.

76
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This was
three months ago.

77
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But your platitude still stands.

78
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Well, I'm sorry, buddy.

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It's not a big deal.

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Is the meeting over?

81
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Yeah. I'll see
you guys later.

82
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Uh, where did we land
on the tickets?

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Knock yourself out.

84
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Oh, my goodness.

85
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Thank you so much
for thinking of me.

86
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I'm so glad you're dating again.

87
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You took that breakup
pretty hard.

88
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You did?
He did.

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Big-time.
DOUGLAS: I was told

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the meeting was adjourned.

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Can I go back to work, please?

92
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Very good. Stay focused.
What did I tell you at dinner?

93
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(sighs) "Make yourself
into a man worthy of love,

94
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and love
will find you."

95
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I wrote that one down
as soon as you said it.

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You were there, too?

97
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Oh, yeah, we all went.

98
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This one turns into quite a poet
after a few glasses of wine.

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Guilty.
(laughs)

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Well, it's good somebody
was there for you.

101
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Oh, honey, I know how you feel.

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You spend a couple of months
in St. Barts to decompress,

103
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you come home and,
all of a sudden,

104
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your kid's graduating
high school.

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I mean, you can't beat yourself
up, you needed the break.

106
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I wasn't on vacation,
I've been working.

107
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There you go. Bury the guilt.

108
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Are you wearing the cologne
I sent? Remember,

109
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if the judge
likes what he smells,

110
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he will like what he hears.

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Her son?
The lawyer.

112
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Ooh.
Now, run me through
your closing argument.

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No, no, no.

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First,
you cite precedent,

115
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and then you attack
the plaintiff's character.

116
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This is basic stuff.
Do not be stupid.

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She loves him so much.

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Okay,
put the children on.

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Hello, my babies.

120
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Granny is coming
to see you soon,

121
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and she's going to get you
in the tickle machine,

122
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and she's going to
tickle you

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and tickle you

124
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and tickle you.

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Night-night, my cuddle bugs.

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(kissing)
No, I love you more.

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(kissing)

128
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What?

129
00:05:09,710 --> 00:05:12,513
Just wondering where
we could buy a tickle machine.

130
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I've never seen
this side of you.

131
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It is wonderful.
(chuckles)

132
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Yes. I used to think
I didn't like children.

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Turns out,
I just didn't like my own.

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I'm glad you and your son
are talking again.

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And I bet those kids are glad
to have their grandma back.

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Especially since he told them
I was dead. (laughs)

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What?

138
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We were fighting.
You say things.

139
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Did they have questions
when you came back to life?

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They know better than to ask.
It is none of their business.

141
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So the kids
have to say goodnight

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to the ghost of Grandma Kemi?

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ABISHOLA:
Nigerians don't like

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to share their personal lives
with their children.

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Mm-hmm. You have to remain infallible.

146
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Once you show them
you are human,

147
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you have lost all authority.

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So how do they learn
from your mistakes?

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What mistakes?
What mistakes?

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Never mind.
My father was just like you,

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completely closed off.

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For years, all I knew about him

153
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was that he grunted
and hated tartar sauce.

154
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Well, elders choose to pass on
what they think is important.

155
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Hmm.
Perhaps condiments and coughing
was all he wanted you to know.

156
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He didn't even tell me
when he was diagnosed

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with prostate cancer.

158
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Oh, that's terrible.
Sorry, Gloria.

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(sighs) All I'm saying is, talk
to your children while you can.

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Funmbi, when was the last time
you had your prostate checked?

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Pass the phone to your wife,
I will tell her what to do.

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(whispers): Thank you, Gloria.

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Don't thank me.

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I did fall asleep eventually.
The melatonin helped.

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Thank you for the suggestion.
(stammers)

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I did not know you were
having trouble sleeping.

167
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Do you also not know
I am on the phone?

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Sorry.

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I have the same problem.
As soon as I lie down,

170
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it is like a faucet
in the back of my throat.

171
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Mm. That may be
postnasal drip.

172
00:07:02,322 --> 00:07:05,292
We'll get you a humidifier
and prop you up on a pillow.

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Excuse me,
are you my friend Abeni,

174
00:07:08,662 --> 00:07:11,431
who is spending a dollar
a minute just to speak to me?

175
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No.
Then stop talking.

176
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Sorry.

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At least with the lack of sleep,

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I have almost finished
this month's book.

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I agree it is fantastic.

180
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I never considered

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what life would be like
as the wife of a time traveler.

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Oh, Kemi read that.
She said that...

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Abeni, let us talk
another time.

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I am being spied on.

185
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I did not know you were
in a book club.

186
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That must be a nice way
to keep in touch

187
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with your friends in Nigeria.

188
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That shirt still has
a stain on it.

189
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I know,

190
00:07:48,368 --> 00:07:49,937
and I've tried everything.

191
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I'm going to have to
throw it out.

192
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Nonsense. Mix lemon juice
with water, add a pinch of salt,

193
00:07:55,308 --> 00:07:57,010
spray the shirt,
leave it in the sun

194
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for an hour.
It will be as good as new.

195
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Thank you, Mummy.

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00:08:00,681 --> 00:08:02,082
You are so full of

197
00:08:02,182 --> 00:08:04,652
wonderful knowledge.
Who taught you that?

198
00:08:04,752 --> 00:08:07,921
Who cares who taught me.
It will get out the stain.

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00:08:08,021 --> 00:08:09,990
Of course.

200
00:08:10,090 --> 00:08:12,025
I feel like I am living
with Barbara Walters.

201
00:08:20,934 --> 00:08:23,604
Hey.
Hey.

202
00:08:27,340 --> 00:08:29,877
So... (sighs)

203
00:08:29,977 --> 00:08:31,812
Sup?

204
00:08:31,912 --> 00:08:33,847
Not much.

205
00:08:37,317 --> 00:08:40,721
You know, when I say "sup"
to you, I really mean it.

206
00:08:42,055 --> 00:08:45,492
And I really mean it
when I say "not much."

207
00:08:48,528 --> 00:08:50,631
I am sorry
about your breakup.

208
00:08:50,731 --> 00:08:53,366
I'm fine. Good.

209
00:08:53,466 --> 00:08:55,535
Good, good, good.

210
00:09:01,508 --> 00:09:03,677
You know who's
not good? The Tigers.

211
00:09:03,777 --> 00:09:05,512
I can't believe some
of the moves they're making.

212
00:09:05,613 --> 00:09:08,015
It's like they want to lose.
That's what Goodwin said.

213
00:09:08,115 --> 00:09:10,618
You talk baseball
with Goodwin?

214
00:09:10,718 --> 00:09:13,120
It's our thing now.
I got him into it.

215
00:09:13,220 --> 00:09:17,124
Thought it was our thing,
but... whatevs.

216
00:09:21,394 --> 00:09:24,832
You're gonna be okay.
You're gonna meet the right one.

217
00:09:24,932 --> 00:09:26,466
I know.

218
00:09:26,566 --> 00:09:29,870
Cool. Cool beans.

219
00:09:30,938 --> 00:09:32,172
Huh?

220
00:09:32,272 --> 00:09:35,676
You know, like, tight.
Everything's tight.

221
00:09:37,811 --> 00:09:40,413
How many of these
do you want done?

222
00:09:40,513 --> 00:09:42,415
Uh, I want to thread
the whole fleet,

223
00:09:42,515 --> 00:09:44,752
do a test run
in full production mode.

224
00:09:44,852 --> 00:09:46,754
Okay, well, I'm almost done
with this one.

225
00:09:46,854 --> 00:09:48,822
I just got to keep
this yarn from splitting.

226
00:09:48,922 --> 00:09:49,823
(screams)

227
00:09:49,923 --> 00:09:51,759
Whoa! Turn it off!
(grunts)

228
00:09:51,859 --> 00:09:53,861
Oh, God, oh, God,
oh, God, oh, God.
Put pressure on it!

229
00:09:53,961 --> 00:09:55,395
Hold your hand above your head.

230
00:09:55,495 --> 00:09:57,230
Is it dripping?

231
00:09:57,330 --> 00:09:58,766
Okay. Oh, my God.

232
00:09:58,866 --> 00:10:00,300
We got to get you
to the hospital. Come on.

233
00:10:00,400 --> 00:10:02,235
Okay. I'll call Goodwin.

234
00:10:02,335 --> 00:10:04,504
We're not
calling Goodwin!

235
00:10:13,513 --> 00:10:15,082
I'm gonna look.
You don't need to do that.

236
00:10:15,182 --> 00:10:16,416
Just breathe,
we're almost there.

237
00:10:16,516 --> 00:10:18,085
Ah, I looked.

238
00:10:18,185 --> 00:10:19,687
I said breathe. Relax.

239
00:10:19,787 --> 00:10:23,657
When you yell at someone
to relax, they don't relax.

240
00:10:23,757 --> 00:10:25,092
Hey, it's gonna be okay.

241
00:10:25,192 --> 00:10:27,194
You don't know that.
Yes, I do.

242
00:10:27,294 --> 00:10:28,862
You remember that time
at the lake house

243
00:10:28,962 --> 00:10:30,998
when me and my friends
were going off the rope swing,

244
00:10:31,098 --> 00:10:32,565
and then you tried
and let go too early,

245
00:10:32,666 --> 00:10:34,401
and you hit your head
on a rock?

246
00:10:35,602 --> 00:10:38,171
No, I don't
remember that at all.

247
00:10:38,271 --> 00:10:40,908
Yeah, you were
kind of unconscious.

248
00:10:41,008 --> 00:10:42,542
The point is,
I got you through it.

249
00:10:42,642 --> 00:10:44,812
I'm your big brother.
I'm gonna take care of you.

250
00:10:44,912 --> 00:10:46,413
Okay.

251
00:10:46,513 --> 00:10:48,916
You're not gonna lose
the finger, you hear me?

252
00:10:49,016 --> 00:10:51,418
Yeah.

253
00:10:51,518 --> 00:10:52,720
If you do,

254
00:10:52,820 --> 00:10:54,454
it's an automatic
conversation starter.

255
00:10:54,554 --> 00:10:55,723
That's true.

256
00:10:55,823 --> 00:10:57,224
There's this girl
at my gym with one leg,

257
00:10:57,324 --> 00:10:58,792
and every time
she hops onto that treadmill,

258
00:10:58,892 --> 00:11:00,994
I want to know her story.

259
00:11:03,964 --> 00:11:05,132
I'm gonna look again.

260
00:11:05,232 --> 00:11:06,633
I just told you
not to look at it.

261
00:11:06,734 --> 00:11:09,136
Oh, you could see the bone.
You can't see the bone.

262
00:11:09,236 --> 00:11:11,471
Yes, I can.
Yeah, you can see the bone.

263
00:11:16,109 --> 00:11:18,478
Here are my
family photos.

264
00:11:18,578 --> 00:11:21,514
I'm willing to answer questions
and share stories.

265
00:11:21,614 --> 00:11:22,983
Really?

266
00:11:23,083 --> 00:11:26,319
Yes. I'm your mother.
You should know about me.

267
00:11:26,419 --> 00:11:27,988
Where is this
coming from?

268
00:11:28,088 --> 00:11:29,990
Do you want to see
the photos or not?

269
00:11:32,425 --> 00:11:33,326
Is that you?

270
00:11:33,426 --> 00:11:34,895
Yes.

271
00:11:34,995 --> 00:11:37,230
I had a few awkward years
as a teenager.

272
00:11:37,330 --> 00:11:39,099
I think it just
took some time

273
00:11:39,199 --> 00:11:40,600
for you to grow
into your head.

274
00:11:40,700 --> 00:11:42,135
Dele.

275
00:11:42,235 --> 00:11:45,305
They used to call me
"head of the class."

276
00:11:45,405 --> 00:11:48,742
That's clever,
but very mean.

277
00:11:50,577 --> 00:11:53,046
Wow. Look how young
you and Dad are.

278
00:11:53,146 --> 00:11:55,682
Mm. I was not born
an adult, you know.

279
00:11:55,783 --> 00:11:57,450
I didn't know Dad
had a motorcycle.

280
00:11:57,550 --> 00:11:59,352
Oh, that was mine.

281
00:12:00,854 --> 00:12:02,956
I have so many questions.

282
00:12:03,056 --> 00:12:04,457
It had 600 cc's,

283
00:12:04,557 --> 00:12:07,060
and no,
you cannot have one.

284
00:12:10,330 --> 00:12:11,731
Whose wedding
is this?

285
00:12:11,832 --> 00:12:14,802
My cousin. Mm.

286
00:12:14,902 --> 00:12:16,203
That's where
your father and I met.

287
00:12:16,303 --> 00:12:18,705
He was so handsome

288
00:12:18,806 --> 00:12:20,307
and such a good dancer.

289
00:12:20,407 --> 00:12:21,975
I knew I wanted
to meet him.

290
00:12:22,075 --> 00:12:23,476
So you made
the first move?

291
00:12:23,576 --> 00:12:25,645
Do not talk
to your mother like that.

292
00:12:26,880 --> 00:12:29,482
Your father was
a very respectful young man.

293
00:12:29,582 --> 00:12:33,086
He asked my father's permission
before he took me out on a date.

294
00:12:35,355 --> 00:12:38,458
You're sitting on his lap
in this one.

295
00:12:38,558 --> 00:12:40,360
Oh.

296
00:12:40,460 --> 00:12:42,495
Isn't this
the same wedding?

297
00:12:42,595 --> 00:12:44,097
Yes.

298
00:12:44,197 --> 00:12:46,033
Where you just met?

299
00:12:46,133 --> 00:12:48,535
I think we have
shared enough.

300
00:12:50,103 --> 00:12:52,806
This is a strange feeling.
What is?

301
00:12:52,906 --> 00:12:56,944
You're not just my mother.
You're a person.

302
00:12:57,044 --> 00:12:59,246
I prefer to just
be your mother.

303
00:12:59,346 --> 00:13:01,081
Let's go back to that.

304
00:13:01,181 --> 00:13:03,116
Too late.

305
00:13:07,620 --> 00:13:09,389
It's gonna be fine.
Abishola's on her way.

306
00:13:09,489 --> 00:13:11,358
She doesn't need to do that.
I'm feeling much better.

307
00:13:11,458 --> 00:13:12,759
No, I'm not. Okay.

308
00:13:12,860 --> 00:13:14,427
Sit.

309
00:13:14,527 --> 00:13:15,829
(grunts)

310
00:13:15,929 --> 00:13:18,031
Hi. You might know my wife,
Abishola Adebambo.

311
00:13:18,131 --> 00:13:19,833
She's a nurse in cardiology.

312
00:13:19,933 --> 00:13:21,401
She told me to tell you
to bump us up.

313
00:13:21,501 --> 00:13:23,003
Is the person
you're with experiencing

314
00:13:23,103 --> 00:13:24,337
chest pains or in labor?

315
00:13:24,437 --> 00:13:25,906
No.
Have a seat.

316
00:13:26,006 --> 00:13:27,774
Listen, lady, that's my
little brother over there,

317
00:13:27,875 --> 00:13:30,010
a-and his finger's
damn near falling off.

318
00:13:30,110 --> 00:13:32,079
I don't care what it costs,
I want him seen right now,

319
00:13:32,179 --> 00:13:34,047
you hear me? Thank you.

320
00:13:34,147 --> 00:13:35,082
Security, stand by.

321
00:13:35,182 --> 00:13:36,884
I'm sitting. I'm sitting.

322
00:13:39,853 --> 00:13:42,455
You're gonna be okay.
I'm such an idiot.

323
00:13:42,555 --> 00:13:45,125
I can't even make a sock
without mutilating myself.

324
00:13:45,225 --> 00:13:47,594
Look, accidents happen.
It's just bad luck.

325
00:13:47,694 --> 00:13:49,396
I'll never play
banjo again.

326
00:13:49,496 --> 00:13:51,131
You never
played before.

327
00:13:51,231 --> 00:13:53,766
Well, now it's
off the table. Oh.

328
00:13:53,867 --> 00:13:56,103
Bob.
There you are.

329
00:13:56,203 --> 00:13:57,270
Wife of mine.

330
00:13:57,370 --> 00:13:58,405
ABISHOLA:
Are you okay, Douglas?

331
00:13:58,505 --> 00:14:00,473
No.
Why are you still waiting?

332
00:14:00,573 --> 00:14:02,142
Her.

333
00:14:02,242 --> 00:14:03,643
I guess if you're not
losing an organ...

334
00:14:03,743 --> 00:14:05,645
Why is my brother-in-law
sitting in the waiting room

335
00:14:05,745 --> 00:14:07,247
with a grade three
laceration?

336
00:14:07,347 --> 00:14:08,481
We're swamped down here.

337
00:14:08,581 --> 00:14:09,950
If he even loses
a fingernail

338
00:14:10,050 --> 00:14:11,184
due to your negligence,

339
00:14:11,284 --> 00:14:12,920
I'll report you
to the review board.

340
00:14:15,855 --> 00:14:17,157
Review board.

341
00:14:17,257 --> 00:14:19,492
She's good.

342
00:14:23,163 --> 00:14:25,899
(overlapping chatter)
Success! No fingers
left behind.

343
00:14:25,999 --> 00:14:27,367
(cheering)

344
00:14:27,467 --> 00:14:28,735
Bring it in, buddy.

345
00:14:28,835 --> 00:14:31,404
I didn't expect everybody
to be here.

346
00:14:31,504 --> 00:14:32,872
All right, let's give him
some room.

347
00:14:32,973 --> 00:14:34,641
No, no, it's nice.

348
00:14:34,741 --> 00:14:37,710
Enough, he needs
to rest. Come.

349
00:14:37,810 --> 00:14:39,379
We brought ice cream.
Would you like some?

350
00:14:39,479 --> 00:14:40,747
Sounds good, thanks.

351
00:14:40,847 --> 00:14:43,516
I-I think everyone
would like ice cream.

352
00:14:45,285 --> 00:14:46,619
You're on heavy
pain medication.

353
00:14:46,719 --> 00:14:48,221
You might have some trouble
with food.

354
00:14:48,321 --> 00:14:50,190
Good point. Just a beer.

355
00:14:50,290 --> 00:14:51,925
I think everyone
would like a beer.

356
00:14:52,025 --> 00:14:54,227
I got him some ice.

357
00:14:54,327 --> 00:14:57,530
Ooh, thank you.
We got you some ice.

358
00:14:59,332 --> 00:15:01,434
So, what happened, sweetie?

359
00:15:01,534 --> 00:15:04,071
I was just being careless.
Classic Douglas.

360
00:15:04,171 --> 00:15:05,572
Enough of that,
it was an accident.

361
00:15:05,672 --> 00:15:07,107
I don't want
to say it again.

362
00:15:07,207 --> 00:15:08,841
Okay.
You have spent

363
00:15:08,942 --> 00:15:10,978
hour after hour working
on that warehouse floor.

364
00:15:11,078 --> 00:15:12,879
Hell, you've been coming in on
the weekends just to learn the

365
00:15:12,980 --> 00:15:15,282
new machines. If this happened
to somebody as skilled as you,

366
00:15:15,382 --> 00:15:17,017
it could've happened to anybody.

367
00:15:17,117 --> 00:15:19,152
Thanks, Bob.
You're welcome.

368
00:15:19,252 --> 00:15:22,155
We're all just glad
you're okay. Mm.

369
00:15:22,255 --> 00:15:23,790
I love you, buddy.

370
00:15:25,725 --> 00:15:26,826
I love you, too.

371
00:15:27,760 --> 00:15:31,298
(choking up): Did you see
that the Lions, they...

372
00:15:31,398 --> 00:15:33,700
they fired their
offensive coordinator?

373
00:15:33,800 --> 00:15:35,302
They had to do something.
The guy's running

374
00:15:35,402 --> 00:15:37,137
a West Coast offense
without the personnel.

375
00:15:37,237 --> 00:15:40,240
They really do
love each other.

376
00:15:41,274 --> 00:15:43,076
Guess you have to lose a finger

377
00:15:43,176 --> 00:15:45,278
to receive some affection
around here. (chuckles)

378
00:15:45,378 --> 00:15:47,914
Honey, give it a rest.

379
00:15:49,316 --> 00:15:50,950
You will be fine.
I still have

380
00:15:51,051 --> 00:15:53,286
the scar on my hand from when
I was a little girl.

381
00:15:53,386 --> 00:15:55,122
I got it playing
in the tool shed

382
00:15:55,222 --> 00:15:56,756
at my grandfather's farm.

383
00:15:56,856 --> 00:15:58,358
I remember that.

384
00:15:58,458 --> 00:16:00,227
I did not know
great-grandfather had a farm.

385
00:16:00,327 --> 00:16:01,761
He grew cassava.

386
00:16:01,861 --> 00:16:04,331
We would drive up and help him
harvest it by hand.

387
00:16:04,431 --> 00:16:05,999
Working on your
grandfather's farm

388
00:16:06,099 --> 00:16:07,767
must've been a very
special time for you.

389
00:16:07,867 --> 00:16:10,237
You know, my Uncle Willy
had a sweet corn farm.

390
00:16:10,337 --> 00:16:12,905
Bob, please.
My mother is speaking.

391
00:16:13,006 --> 00:16:15,275
All right.

392
00:16:15,375 --> 00:16:16,443
Well, in August,
we would all

393
00:16:16,543 --> 00:16:17,944
pile in the car,
and then we...

394
00:16:27,987 --> 00:16:30,490
(baseball playing on TV)

395
00:16:30,590 --> 00:16:32,259
You starting
to like baseball?

396
00:16:32,359 --> 00:16:34,294
No, not really.

397
00:16:34,394 --> 00:16:35,595
It grows on you.

398
00:16:35,695 --> 00:16:38,165
Okay.

399
00:16:38,265 --> 00:16:40,833
So, this spring training game
does not even count?

400
00:16:40,933 --> 00:16:42,669
Nope. Basically,
a big practice.

401
00:16:42,769 --> 00:16:46,439
And because you were at work,
the game already happened.

402
00:16:46,539 --> 00:16:49,542
But instead of just looking up
who won, you are watching it.

403
00:16:49,642 --> 00:16:51,678
I'm a complicated man.

404
00:16:51,778 --> 00:16:54,814
(sighs) That is one way
to put it.

405
00:16:54,914 --> 00:16:57,817
(phone chimes)

406
00:16:57,917 --> 00:17:00,887
Aw, my brother says
his date went well.

407
00:17:00,987 --> 00:17:02,922
Mm. That is wonderful.
Yeah, hang on,

408
00:17:03,022 --> 00:17:04,624
let me write him back.

409
00:17:04,724 --> 00:17:06,826
Thumbs up. Party hat.

410
00:17:08,161 --> 00:17:11,030
Good for him.
After ending a relationship,

411
00:17:11,131 --> 00:17:12,632
it can be hard
to try again.

412
00:17:12,732 --> 00:17:14,467
Tell me about it.
After my divorce,

413
00:17:14,567 --> 00:17:17,003
I had trouble moving on.

414
00:17:17,104 --> 00:17:18,705
You are being modest.

415
00:17:18,805 --> 00:17:20,707
No man who can flirt
with a woman

416
00:17:20,807 --> 00:17:22,175
while wearing
a hospital gown

417
00:17:22,275 --> 00:17:24,511
has trouble
with the ladies.
(chuckles)

418
00:17:24,611 --> 00:17:25,878
I'm telling you.
It went Lorraine,

419
00:17:25,978 --> 00:17:28,248
a lot of frozen pizzas
for dinner, and then you.

420
00:17:28,348 --> 00:17:31,551
Aw, you love me
more than pizza.

421
00:17:31,651 --> 00:17:33,120
(chuckles)

422
00:17:33,220 --> 00:17:36,055
What about you? A lot of
microwave jollof after Tayo?

423
00:17:36,156 --> 00:17:39,292
Uh, I had a boyfriend
or two.

424
00:17:41,294 --> 00:17:43,963
Was it "a" or two?

425
00:17:44,063 --> 00:17:46,999
One was very serious.
His name was Ke...

426
00:17:47,100 --> 00:17:48,935
You know what? I think
we shared enough for now.

427
00:17:49,035 --> 00:17:51,471
Okay.
Okay.

428
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